freebsd vs ejabberd vs me, 1 0 0

A moral prize to the people that could guess what’s wrong

relevant part of the config

  {5222, ejabberd_c2s, [

                        %%
                        %% If TLS is compiled and you installed a SSL
                        %% certificate, put the correct path to the
                        %% file and uncomment this line:
                        %%
                        {certfile, "/usr/local/etc/ejabberd/ssl.pem"}, starttls,

                        {access, c2s},
                        {shaper, c2s_shaper},
                        {max_stanza_size, 65536}
                       ]},

relevant log message when you try to login

**      Data  == {state,#Port<0.367>,<0.374.0>,gen_tcp,"2667452897",
                        {sasl_state,"jabber","jabber.stuff",[],
                                    #Fun<ejabberd_c2s.1.132950982>,
                                    #Fun<ejabberd_c2s.2.53796002>,undefined,
                                    undefined},
                        c2s,c2s_shaper,false,true,false,false,
                        [{certfile,"/usr/local/etc/ejabberd/ssl.pem"}],
                        false,undefined,[],"jabber.bofh-land.net",[],
                        undefined,
                        {0,nil},
                        {0,nil},
                        {0,nil},
                        {0,nil},
                        undefined,undefined,undefined,false,none,[]}
** Reason for termination = 
** {{badmatch,{error,"SSL_CTX_use_certificate_file failed: error:02001002:system library:fopen:No such file or directory"}},
    [{ejabberd_c2s,wait_for_feature_request,2},
     {gen_fsm,handle_msg,7},
     {proc_lib,init_p,5}]}

relevant file that surprisingly doesn’t seem to exist.

ls -al /usr/local/etc/ejabberd/ssl.pem
-rwxrwxrwx  1 ejabberd  wheel  1956 Feb  8 14:21 /usr/local/etc/ejabberd/ssl.pem